Discover why Aria Care is the perfect choice for elderly couples seeking care homes together, offering tailored services and a supportive community.
Why Aria Care Is The Ideal Choice For Elderly Couples Looking For Care Homes Together
After a lifetime of shared memories, unwavering support, and deep companionship, it’s only natural that couples want to stay together when moving into residential care.
At Aria Care, we believe that moving into care should be a continuation of life’s journey, not a separation from it. That’s why many of our care homes across the UK offer support for couples, ensuring they receive the personalised care they need while continuing their story side by side.
As a trusted provider of elderly care, we understand the unique considerations of finding a home that accommodates both partners’ needs. Whether one half of the partnership needs more support than the other, or both seek a helping hand in daily life, our specialised teams enable elderly couples to stay together.
Why Choose A Care Home For Couples?
Humans are naturally social beings, thriving on connection and companionship. For elderly couples, staying together isn’t just a comfort, it’s vital for emotional well-being too. Research shows that social isolation can have a huge negative impact on seniors, affecting both their mental and physical health.
Choosing a care home for couples offers more than just the reassurance of staying together; it also provides practical advantages, from personalised care plans to a safe, comfortable environment with a true home-from-home feel. Let’s take a closer look how couples care can enhance well-being and quality of life.
Easing Separation Anxiety For Couples
For couples who have spent many years together, being apart can be emotionally difficult – especially when one partner moves into a care home before the other. It can be even more challenging if one partner requires more care than the other and needs to move into a different care home altogether due to lack of specialist support and care provision.
Luckily, at Aria Care homes, we not only provide a full range of care options, but we also tailor our care to each individual while considering the needs of both partners as a couple. Couples can transition into our care smoothly, comfortably, and without fear of separation.
Retain Independence
For couples who have always been self-sufficient and relied on each other for support, moving into a couple’s care home can mean that independence for both partners can be enjoyed.
Adjust To New Routines Together
Moving into a care home comes with a new daily rhythm, from mealtimes to activities and social events. Adjusting to these changes can feel much easier when embraced together. As a couple, you can support one another, learn new routines with familiarity and comfort, and settle into your new home effortlessly. You can share this new journey together with positivity and support, rather than feeling overwhelmed by change.
Personalised Care Tailored To Each Partner’s Needs
As couples age, their health and support needs may change at different rates. At Aria Care we recognise that no two individuals are the same, which is why we provide personalised elderly couples’ care that caters to each partner’s needs while continuing to stay together. Whether one person needs more specialised support such as dementia care, both require professional nursing care, or one partner needs no specialist care at all, a well-structured care plan ensures they receive the right level of help while promoting independence.
Continuity Of Care For Peace Of Mind
A key part of our approach is continuity of care, ensuring that as needs change over time, support remains consistent and adaptable. Our expert care teams work closely with couples and their families to provide ongoing assessments and adjustments, so no matter how circumstances evolve, both partners can feel secure knowing they will always receive compassionate, high-quality care – together.
What Makes Aria Care Homes Perfect For Elderly Couples?
At Aria Care, we believe that growing older shouldn’t mean growing apart. Aside from the full range of person-centred care we offer which allows couples to remain together regardless of their individual care requirements, we want our couples to:
- Live together, just like home: For couples who wish to share a room, many of our homes offer spacious, specially designed accommodations to suit their needs. Some homes have larger rooms perfect for couples, while others offer adjoining rooms, allowing one space to be used as a lounge area. In some cases, depending on care needs, partners may need to be in different areas of the home—but our teams go above and beyond to ensure they spend as much time together as possible.
- Enjoy independence and companionship – the best of both worlds: Our couples can dine, socialise, and relax together, or enjoy independent time when they want to. With a variety of shared activities, our homes have a warm, family-like environment, giving couples the freedom to enjoy their time together while still embracing personal interests. And yes, privacy is always respected – our care teams are exceptional at maintaining everyone’s privacy and space.
- Benefit from our cost and accommodation options: We tailor pricing based on each couple’s care needs and accommodation requirements. For couples who choose to share a room, a cost adjustment is made since only one room is being used. To explore availability and pricing, we recommend contacting your preferred Aria Care home to discuss the best options for you.
Rob & Irene’s Story: A Lifetime Together, A New Chapter at Coxhill Manor
For Rob and Irene, love has been a constant for more than seven decades. This year, they celebrate an incredible 70 years of marriage – marking a lifetime filled with memories, hard work, and devotion to each other. From their days as farmers to raising three children who found success in their chosen careers, their life together has been rich and fulfilling. But as time passed, they found that maintaining their independence at home was becoming more challenging.
Making the decision to move into care
The decision to move into a care home wasn’t made lightly. Rob’s health had begun to decline, requiring multiple hospital visits in just one month. Discussions with doctors about their long-term wellbeing made them reflect on what was best for both of them. They also recognised that their growing needs were taking up a lot of their daughter Sandra’s time, and they wanted to ease that burden.
“We talked about it seriously,” Rob recalls. “I knew it was time – Irene had done enough.”
Wanting to stay close to Pyrford, they shortlisted three care homes but quickly found two to be unsuitable. Irene visited Coxhill first and instantly felt at ease. When Rob was well enough to visit, they were both met with such warmth that they knew – this was their new home.
Settling into life at Coxhill
Like many couples, they worried about leaving their home and deciding what to bring with them. But those concerns melted away the moment they moved in.
“I walked in, and there was our wedding photo, a painting of our first home, and my favourite nest of tables – it felt like home instantly,” Irene says.
Rob, with emotion in his voice, simply added, “I was with Irene.”
Their transition into care was made even easier by the kindness of the team and residents, who welcomed them into what they now consider their extended family.
“Nothing is too much trouble here,” Irene smiles.
A new kind of independence
Life at Coxhill has given them something they hadn’t expected – a new kind of independence. They no longer have to worry about household responsibilities, and instead of being the ones looking after everyone else, they’re now the ones being cared for.
“There’s a real sense of security,” Rob says. “I know Irene is supported so well, especially when I’m unwell.”
The team at Coxhill have tailored their care to fit their needs as individuals while ensuring they can remain together as a couple. If one of them needs extra care, it’s provided seamlessly, with the reassurance that they’ll always be supported.
Finding joy in the everyday
Despite their new setting, Rob and Irene’s love for life hasn’t changed. They take daily walks in the garden, enjoying the bird feeders (and Irene’s ongoing battle to keep the squirrels away!). Rob has even recently joined Irene in the choir, something she never imagined he would do.
“There’s so much going on, you don’t have time to miss your old life,” Irene laughs. Their days are filled with activities like Bingo, The Price is Right, Countdown, and their cherished Sunday church service.
Advice for other couples considering care
For couples wondering whether a care home is the right choice, Rob and Irene have one simple piece of advice:
“Come and have a look. Meet the people. See if it feels right for you.”
They still keep in touch with old friends in Chichester and feel they’ve gained so much from making the move.
“There’s a whole new chapter waiting here. We are so happy, we feel like part of the family, and most importantly – we have peace of mind knowing we’ll always be together.”
5 Top Tips For Couples In Care Homes
If you have decided to move into a care home as a couple, here are our top 5 tips for a seamless transition:
1. Communicate: Open communication is key to navigating care homes as a couple. It’s important to discuss any concerns, fears, or worries you may have with your partner, as well as with the care home team.
2. Spend time together: It’s important for couples in care homes to spend time together. This can include participating in activities together, having meals together, and spending time in each other’s rooms.
3. Respect each other’s space: While spending time together is important, it’s also important to respect each other’s space. Couples should feel comfortable spending time apart and pursuing their own interests. We encourage residents to personalise their rooms, so each person can enjoy their own little retreat within the home.
4. Stay involved: Staying involved in the care home community can help couples feel more connected and engaged. This can include attending social events, getting involved with the varied activities in the home or just enjoying a catch up with friends.
5. Seek support: If you’re struggling with the challenges of being a couple in a care home, it’s important to seek help. The Aria Care team are always on hand to provide support and help make your time at the home as enjoyable and fulfilling as possible.
How To Choose Your Aria Care Home For Couples
As we have discussed, moving into a care home together allows couples to continue sharing their lives while receiving the support they need. At Aria Care, we recognise that elderly couples care is unique, which is why we offer personalised care plans for each individual. With a range of care options under one roof, our approach to couples care helps maintain partnerships, ensure comfort and companionship.
If you’re looking for a couple’s care home experience where you can live with your significant other, with 67 homes across England, Scotland, and Jersey, you’re bound to find an Aria Care home that meets your needs. Either browse our homes to find your nearest Aria Care home or contact us to schedule a visit or chat things through.
